At around 9 p.m., we proceeded to the dungeon which was across the street from my friend's home. “There was a lot of latex, leather, and lace involved. Either way, let their experiences give you a sneak preview on what it might involve. Curious to try out a sex party? Maybe you already RSVP’d and are now digging for details to figure out what you should expect. Check in with yourself often and prioritize your needs.Įvery experience is different, of course, so I spoke to eight women about their first time attending an event in one of these spaces. Whether you’re going with a partner or alone, take time to mindfully think through desires, expectations and concerns. Make sure the people throwing the party have enforceable no-tolerance and policies and consent monitors. Research the promote or group throwing and the party and make sure they prioritize consent and acceptance. To ensure that you have a good time, below are three hot tip recommendations, straight from Venus Cuffs herself. It can feel daunting to go to a party where any type of sexual activity is encouraged. What are some tips for a first-time sex party attendee? Cuffs says that people outside the BDSM community are often surprised to learn that most fetish or kink parties actually limit penetration, oral play, and, in some cases, even heavy petting.

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